Wadup. I wanna talk briefly about a type of mentality that drives us to make bad decisions about our dating life. Scarcity mentality.
To explain what scarcity mentality is for those that don’t know, I found a passage by Dr Stephen Covey ( author of The Seven habits of highly Successful People ).
A few months ago I found out on twitter about a new TV show about to hit South African televisions. The show is called MAN. The show is about the love lives of 4 Cape Townian guys Henri Slier, Kaizer Tsosane, Trevor Gow and Maurice Levin.
It was subsequently postponed due to SABC 3’s cricket commitments (ENG vs RSA: which South Africa [...]
OK, before I begin there are 2 questions that I would like to ask you. Are you of the opinion that a guy should instantly see all you have to offer and you shouldn’t have to work for it? You are not satisfied with your current dating life, you want more but you don’t feel [...]
Finally 2010 has rolled around. It has been a fascinating year. A year of many ups and downs…mostly ups I got to say. A smooth winter and an absolutely fantastic 2008/2009 summer season. If you don’t know what happened, I chronicled all the highlights in various posts from that time. Go back and take a [...]
What is your opinion on dating someone you work with and why?
I posed a question to some friends of mine via Titter and Facebook. We spend a large chunk of our lives working. Some people work 12 hour days and most weekends. It is almost inevitable that people would hook up with those they see [...]
It’s my purgatory really, dinner drinks whatever Never really all that interested but I find myself telling her how beautiful she is anyway, cause its true, All women are in one way or another There is always something about every damn one of you A smile, a curve….a secret. You ladies really are the most amazing creatures My life’s work. But, then there is the morning after The hangover, The realization that I’m not quite as available as I thought I was the night before Then she’s gone. And I’m haunted by yet another road untaken. AKPC_IDS += "1043,"; Read More →
Wadup. I wanna talk briefly about a type of mentality that drives us to make bad decisions about our dating life. Scarcity mentality. To explain what scarcity mentality is for those that don’t know, I found a passage by Dr Stephen Covey ( author of The Seven habits of highly Successful People ). more AKPC_IDS += "1062,"; Read More →
A few months ago I found out on twitter about a new TV show about to hit South African televisions. The show is called MAN. The show is about the love lives of 4 Cape Townian guys Henri Slier, Kaizer Tsosane, Trevor Gow and Maurice Levin. It was subsequently postponed due to SABC 3’s cricket commitments (ENG vs RSA: which South Africa won btw ). They later got a new airdate! 22 January 2010 on SABC 3. That’s is in a few days. So just to bring you up to speed, here is what has happened... more
OK, before I begin there are 2 questions that I would like to ask you. Are you of the opinion that a guy should instantly see all you have to offer and you shouldn’t have to work for it? You are not satisfied with your current dating life, you want more but you don’t feel that you should change or adjust your behaviour? If your answer is YES to ANY of these questions, I kindly request that you close my website and move on. Oh, you still here, Great! lets begin. For many months there has been... more
Many of us have many first date nightmare stories. Some stories more horrid than others. I myself have had some nightmares. Forgetting my wallet…calling her by the wrong name several times…pouring wine all over her new dress. Yeah the list is endless. I came across this story on one of my favourite sites, http://www.lamebook.com. Its got to be one of the funniest first date experiences I have ever read. more AKPC_IDS += "998,"; Read More →
Finally 2010 has rolled around. It has been a fascinating year. A year of many ups and downs…mostly ups I got to say. A smooth winter and an absolutely fantastic 2008/2009 summer season. If you don’t know what happened, I chronicled all the highlights in various posts from that time. Go back and take a read. I’m going into 2010 with a couple of lessons and a shift in mission. more AKPC_IDS += "988,"; Read More →
What is your opinion on dating someone you work with and why? I posed a question to some friends of mine via Titter and Facebook. We spend a large chunk of our lives working. Some people work 12 hour days and most weekends. It is almost inevitable that people would hook up with those they see every day, their colleagues. It’s not a surprise to anyone that the majority of the answers I received were a resounding NO DON’T DO IT! What is your opinion on dating someone you work with and why? I posed... more
I think it was a Friday night at my my HQ. It must have been my round cause I went over to the bar to get the boys a round of drinks. That is when I noticed Janice and her friend sitting in at the corner of the bar…yeah I know..cliche. They weren’t saying much to each other, they seemed to be watching the people. more AKPC_IDS += "966,"; Read More →
This was a surprisingly difficult list to put together. There are simply so many places to go to in Cape Town we (TheScud and I) haven’t yet visited them all. We don’t think we’ll be able to get to them all. But of all the places we’ve visited, we think this list is a pretty comprehensive list. It is a list of clubs that you are almost guaranteed to meet some of the hottest and most interesting women in Cape Town this summer. The most important criteria for a great venue for meeting... more
Man, it’s been a while hasn’t it! Well I’m back. What happened to me? Life happened! Winter is seeing is last days in the Mother City. And a lot has happened this winter. more AKPC_IDS += "945,"; Read More →
Today I discovered something interesting on twitter. There is a new TV show about to hit South African televisions @ 21h30 on Friday, November 3. The show is called Man. The show is about the love lives of 4 Cape Townian guys Henri Slier, Kaizer Tsosane, Trevor Gow and Maurice Levin. more AKPC_IDS += "924,"; Read More →
If you have been following my progress over the past year and a half you will probably have notice some changes. I have new friends in Cape Town. Settled in very nicely. I am now part of the local pop culture for those in the know. Grate full for those that have helped me come to this point and to those that have added value to my experiences here...
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