Even as a PUA you have to live by a set of guidelines and rules, heck they are just the same rules you apply to your daily life. Being a PUA does not mean that you have to compromise on these values and ethics.
It is with that intro that I bring you, KNOW YOUR NUMBER:
I was bored stiff one Sunday night and decided to hit a local night-spot, at about 22:30, that I knew would be buzzing. At this bar I bumped into some party people that I see on the circuit and it turns out that it was someone’s birthday. So I get invited to join the group and offered drinks/snacks, etc, the usual.
After chilling a while I notice three young-ish hunnies sitting on the couch across from me. I head over start a light conversation, the usual fare, nothing too serious. One in particular seemed very keen. Young, pretty, green-eyes (I likes), infectious smile and very short brown hair. After a few minutes the chat slows down, so I head back to “my” side of the table, and wait to see how keen she really is. A few minutes later, she AND both friends occupy the couch next to me. BAM. The green-eyed PYT restarts the conversation. Hey, I’m in the game.
We’re getting to know each other and then one of the friends says they gotta leave as one of them is working the next day. I ask the green-eyed babe (have I mentioned that I like green eyes? well I do) for her digits. She starts calling them out. The moment I have the last one, I dial her. I’m sick of girls giving out fake numbers, if you don’t wanna give out DON’T, it’s completely your prerogative. Anyway, her phone starts ringing in her bag – Schweet. She says, “Cool, now I have your number.” I tell her I’ll call her in the week.
I employ the cool-off period and a few days later I dial up. We chat and I offer to pick her up to go for out drinks, mebbe dinner… All is sorted for the following evening.
Not 5 minutes after I hang up, I receive an SMS. She writes that she’s 18, AND worse still, still in school (GULP) WTF was she doing out at near midnight, on a Sunday night? She says she likes older men and hopes we can still go out. I feel like a dirty old man. So I pull the plug and we don’t see each other again. She still drops me a message every now and then to say “Hi”.
I was left with a BEEEG moral question, how young is too young?
Some homework revealed an international standard:
(Half your age) + 7 = your ideal lower age limit
And this is the one time where it is appropriate to “round down”.
Now I realise that this may come as a shock to many but it’s just a guide, and the calculation is probably less applicable the older you get.
I’ve heard other formulae like five years either way of your current age, not born after 1988, etc, so it’s your call. But I think schoolgirls should really be left alone.
But that’s just me.
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I have dated both younger and older guys, and have to say that from 22 or 23 upwards it stops mattering so much.
But unless you yourself are 22 or 23, 18-21 is just a bit much. The oldest age gap I’ve experienced was me being 19 and the dude being 31. That was a bit much, and as a result it didn’t take off at all. Now though, at 28 I have had a crush on a 36 year old, and it’s not an issue at all.
P.S. How does it work with toy boys, hehe.
I have also dated younger and older, and while it’s fun when the age difference is small, I still think schoolgirls should be off limits. Well, let’s just say that I am not 22 or 25 for that matter, so 18 was on the (very) low side. I’ll leave the toy boy up to your discretion.
my limits are legal age to infinity.
..just pimp like that
as long as the following parameters are met.
interesting.
sexy.
engaging.
i could be 50 i don’t care, ill date a 20 year old