Name: Candice
Location: PE
Age: 25
Status: single
“ I am a sucker for a man in a button-up shirt with the sleeves rolled up, showing his forearms. Thick chains are NOT cool, not cool at all, but a ring or cuff could be quite hot. The emo thing is over, please don’t wear girls jeans and black nail polish, NO make-up whatsoever, that is gross……”
What’s the best dating advice you could give to a woman and for a man?
Women: don’t try too hard to impress the guy by making false promises of your culinary skills or bedroom skills, if he doesn’t like you the way you are, he’s not worth it, and someone else will.
Men: even people who claim to be feminists like to be treated like ladies, open the car door, let her walk in first, get up to go pay the bill and don’t make a big deal out of it, make her feel like the only person in the world, but don’t smother her and don’t be jealous of her male friends. My ex always made snide remarks about my male friends and he ended up getting the boot. Just because they are male doesn’t make them a threat, if I wanted to date them, I would. They were there before you and will probably be there long after you are gone, so accept them, even if you have to bite your tongue, rather make friends with them….
Sex on the first date? Your take
No, not unless you want the guy to respect you
One night stands? Your take
Depends on the context, if you are looking for sex only, sure, but if you want more from the guy, no ways, he will never fall for that. Get him to fall in love with you first, then he’ll stick around. And never ever with someone you just met.
What’s your opinion on friends with benefits? Had one? Good / bad idea?
I’ve had one of two, I’m not a huge fan of them but they do serve a purpose sometimes.
At what point is a guy too clingy or too distant?
Too clingy is like smsing more than twice in one day, too distant is less than every 2nd day at least. But it also depends on the guy and what it is that he is talking to you about and how your relationship has developed, how busy you are as well. If I am working, I don’t want to be bothered by sms’s or phone calls constantly and he should take that into account.
What fashion advice would you give men?
Nothing specific, except for make an effort at least. I am a sucker for a man in a button-up shirt with the sleeves rolled up, showing his forearms. Thick chains are NOT cool, not cool at all, but a ring or cuff could be quite hot. The emo thing is over, please don’t wear girls jeans and black nail polish, NO make-up whatsoever, that is gross……
Don’t put so much shit in your hair that you have to go to the bathroom to fix it every time I touch it. You don’t like it when girls do that, so please don’t do it yourself. Just be comfortable in what you’re wearing, don’t try to be something you’re not.
Do you have a wingirl? How does it work for you?
Nope.
Do you ever go out alone and why?
Never have, I think it can be a bit creepy if ppl do that, unless you KNOW that you will have friends where you are going, it reeks of desperation.
What’s the best place to meet a guy?
No friggin idea. Otherwise I would be there now.
When you ask “Does this look okay?” do you want honesty or support?
Honesty. Hands down. Remember I am dressing for girls as well, I want them to think I am HOT, I want you to think I am HOT, and I want your friends to think I am HOT. So tell me the truth, if I look fat, you don’t have to say, hey babe, you look disgusting, but maybe suggest something else that does look great.
Why do you find it endearing when a guy’s in love and won’t take no for an answer in the movies, but in real life you call it stalking?
That’s a very good question. Suppose it’s very romantic when we are not the ones being smothered. If you were ryan gosling, I wouldn’t call it stalking either.
What’s your take on online-dating? Do you have an experience? If so can you tell us?
I have a negative perception of it. I prefer to keep things real life, but I have no experience. It just feels like once you have gotten to that point, you’re kind of hit desperation levels and it makes me question what is wrong with this guy if he can’t meet a girl in real life.
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