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Routines: “Do you remember your First Crush?”

Posted by Blade On February - 5 - 2008

I’m not 100% sure where or how this piece first came to be wind of this piece, but I often use it as a conversation piece more than an opener (an opener is a conversation starter.)

This piece has lead to some interesting insights. I start off with it early into my interactions. Builds rapport pretty quickly

What you say is in RED and her reply is in BLUE

PUA: “Do you remember the very first crush you had?”

HB: Yes.

PUA: …what was it about him that got you?

HB: his attitude…

Normally she will answer something abstract like his attitude, something he did that she found charming. You can ask if she remembers his name etc. If you want to get technical, here is were you would ground those good feelings she is remembering about him. But thats for another day
PUA: I read somewhere that after that first crush girls are often most attracted to guys that exhibit some of the qualities of their first crush.

This is actually true , i did read this somewhere and if you ask around you will find that it is somewhat true. I do suspect that it is a sort of truism though. Either way, it makes for interesting conversation trust me.
If she says NO she cant remember not just plain NO, give her shit about i. plyfully of course.

HB: No, cant remember

PUA: ….why? didn’t anyone like you … or…. you know what a crush is rite? ( or whatever kinda neg you got that fits )

PUA: I read somewhere that …..(etc)

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