Solid Game

If it wasn’t for the willingness for others to share their knowledge and experiences I would have never been able to beat my “friend-zone” problem with women.

And is in this spirit I have decided to pass on the knowledge from the experiences I’ve had to someone else in the hope that this might change or improve their dating life as it did mine.

I first met The Scud briefly at a birthday party many months back. The Scud was this smartly dressed, good looking, well-spoken, intelligent and witty guy.
I didn’t think we would meet again people in our circles rarely crossed paths. We bumped into each other occasionally on nights out here and there.

The last time I bumped into him was at a club out of town. Sean Kingston was supposed to show up that night (the fat bastard ate too much and so couldn’t show up). I was out with my wingman Tank that night. Since Kingston wasn’t going to show up we decided to stick around and catch up over a couple beers. The Scud entertained us for the next hour with the most entertaining tales of his experiences and nights out in various cities around the world. We exchanged contact details this time.

The subject of Pick Up came up between The Scud and me when he spotted a rather cryptic status updated I’d posted on Facebook, “Blade is brushing up on his NLP”. NLP stands for Neuro Linguistic Programming (it’s basically hardcore body language).
I briefly explained NLP and its use to The Scud. After playing “spot the hottie” on my Facebook photo albums he deduced that I indeed had a measure of success with women.

We got to talking about PUA and how it has worked out for me. The Scud was quite interested in trying something new to improve his situation with women. His major problem was that of most men. Upon meeting and engaging women the big question of how to keep the momentum going and what to do next always seem to come up. This is a major sticking point.

It shall be my mission over the next couple of months of summer to show The Scud how SolidGame can work for him. To show him how to manage and get over these various little issues that crop up.

Your lucky ass shall have the pleasure of reading all about our successes and failures.

These are our objectives.

·         Identify his sticking points and limiting believes and unlearn bad habits or techniques

·         Enhance his strong points when it comes to women.

·         Work on eradicating or managing his weak points.

·         Identify openers and routines that are genuine and congruent to his personality

·         Get him more dates than he can handle.

We are going to be using a simple method of primarily tackling problems as they crop up (learn to walk before you run).

·         Inner game foundations first

·         Basic to Advanced technique

·         Group dynamics

·         Naturalisation (getting to that place where you no longer have to think about it, you just are)

I’m not going to set a time limit on this; I think it is important to be patient with oneself. We all learn at a different pace. Knowing The Scud so far, I’m sure he shall surprise us all.

Let the adventure begin.

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