Solid Game

O.k guys, its Friday, and most of you are planning to head out tonight as you normally do on a weekend. Its almost valentines, this doesn’t help.

Here is a brief break down of how to actually approach her. If you haven’t read any of the other articles I’ve written on the subject I strongly recommend you read this one:

Things you need to know before you approach her at a club

This is a simple easy way to engage any girl or guy, yes you ladies can use this strategy too.

I’m not going to get into the theory of why this is down the way it is just yet. Lets just get into the meat and potatoes.

Lets assume the girl you are interested in is in a group. Women of beauty rarely go out alone ( even if she is, the same strategy still applies ).

The Actual Approach:

When actually walking up to her group, smile! not a goofy ass smile, a casual and cool disarming smile.

Exude as much confidence as possible. its OK to be nervous…it actually makes you normal.

We all know its feels strange to approach complete strangers in a nerve wracking. so by simply having the guts to approach ( an being sober at the same time) gains you some respect.

The Opener:

An opener is not a pickup line. most pickup lines, if delivered in a standard way, convey too much interest initially.

Your opener needs to be interesting and engaging. Its important that its about something you are genuinly interested in.The link below contains some of my openers and routines.

http://solidgame.co.za/category/openers/

The False Time Constraint:

Be sure you insert a false time constraint in there early. This basically lets them know that you don’t plan to hang around them for long and gives you an exit strategy if things go wrong.

here is an example: “…really quickly, I got to get back to my friends.”

The Neg:

So you have opened the group, they are talking to you, conversation is going well. What do you do now?

In order to solidify your active-disinterest in your target ( her ) add in a Neg. A neg is short for negative compliment. Its a somewhat confusing concept for most newbies. Ill cover this topic at a later stage.

All you need to know for now is that a neg is a playful tease directed to your target in order to convey active disinterest. Why do you want to do this? it just shows that you are the prize and she is the contestant.

here is an example of a neg.

“….you remind me of my ex-girlfriend….wow..she was a bitch ”

or

“….my little sister has the same cute pout….shes such a spoilt brat!”

Remember the purpose of a neg isn’t meant to be mean, and must be delivered playfully.

Momentum:

O.k so they are laughing at your stupid jokes and listening to your stories and teasing you back.

If this is happening then you have successfully opened. An opener should really only last 1 to 2 minutes.

Keep the momentum going.

The Number Close:

ok ran out of time , Ill cover this section in a different article.

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