Anyone that knows me well knows that im an easygoing, fun friendly, dramaless guy. This easygoing vibe has served me well in the past. One thing that never ceases to amaze me though, no matter how cool , chilled hater free you want to be, there will ALWAYS be some insecure ass mofo trying to get up in your grill about some insignificant ass shit. There will always be a hater hanging in the darkness watching you. Fact of life, sad but true.
Hell these punk ass bitches (or bitch ass punks) might be your friends, family your neighbour… you just never know.
This in mind, I’d like to share some advice on how to identify and deal with this scum of life.
In order to understand the process of why haters hate, you must understand the definition of a hater. A hater is “A person whose jealousy of another person success or achievements (socially or career) makes them verbally nit-pick any flaws no matter how small or just makes up flaws in order to somehow try and belittle the successful person.”
Step 1
Instead of getting mad at haters for hating, keep doing what you do that brings hate your way. Having haters is one way of knowing you’re constantly doing something right. It’s always good to have your name in someone else’s mouth, keeps you popular. Even the most dispicable creatures of the earth serve a purpose. So dont trip.
Step 2
Understand that it’s in a hater’s blood to hate. It’s not that they hate you, but rather they hate themselves or hate others who have. The distaste a hater has for you will only grow over time If you continue to succeed, so push forward. ive said it before, there is nott much you can do for someone elses lack of self-esteem.
Step 3
The simplest way to deal with a hater is not to deal with them at all. They seem to always posses a negative aura around them and it may rub off on you if you’re around them to long, so let a hater do their job, drink haterade!
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