We ended up at a pretty vibey club last Friday night. I was out with a lovely girl, energetic and friendly ( thats code for ‘she was hot’ ).
She had ran out of smokes the earlier that evening. So before we go into the club I asked if she wanted to stop by the cafe and get a pack. She told me ” no need, I’ll just get a few from the guys at the club”.
I was the only guy she knew at the club.
Let me tell you a little something about manipulation, WE ALL DO IT. Men and women alike! Perhaps you wouldnt call it manipulation, its all the same thing to me. Using your means to persuade people to your way.
Ive been getting a lot of grief from my AFC friend ..lets call him “Larry” about what he calls , my manipulation of women. Teasing them, telling them set piece stories to get them to laugh therefore disarming them.
Larry is from the old school he believes in the old school romance. Buy her flowers, take her out for dinner, call her everyday cater to her every need….etc
Larry let me ask you something…. When you do all these things for her… arnt you trying to convince her your a nice guy? isn’t that a form of manipulation?
Time and time again Larry complains about girls hes spent time and money on… dumping him for what he calls ” asshole guys that treat her like shit ” ( I call… edgier, fun, interesting , spontaneous and a challenge ).
do you know what love bombing is?
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Love_bombing
Love bombing is the deliberate show of affection or friendship by an individual or a group of people toward another individual. Critics have asserted that this action may be motivated in part by the desire to recruit, convert or otherwise influence.
Don’t get me wrong folks, I’m not saying dont do all the nice things to and for a lady. Im saying call it what it is!. Its manipulation! 
The questions you should be asking are:
- Is she enjoying the “manipulation”
- Are YOU enjoying the manipulation?
- Do you meet with success on a consistent basis?
Be nice, but be something else too.
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