Solid Game

I recently took some time off to go on holiday to go visit my folks and fam back home.

The strange thing about my hometime is that its rather small. Each time ive been to the airport flying to or from the my hometime ive always met someone I know.
I Bumped into an old work mate of mine who was in town a couple days getting his business sorted. During our conversation before boarding quite an attractive older lady came and sat a couple of rows behind us and started reading a magazine. I’m sure she was in her late 30s early 40s but just wow. Certainly looked like she worked out. About 1.65m height curly long hair and very lean.

I took my seat on the plane and to my suprise, the MILF ( lets call her Sharon) came and sat in my row. She had the window seat, I had the isle seat with an empty seat between us.
The plane was rather loud, I dont do well in loud environments, so I kept the initial convo simple and quick.

I didn’t use an opener or anything.

Blade: hey, you got anything interesting to read? { i said casually }
Sharon: I have a fairlady…dont think its your cut of tea.
Blade: Â why, cause im a guy?…ill have you know..im in touch with my feminine side.
Sharon: {laughing} oh I see
Blade: I watch oprah too.Â
Sharon: a guy thats intouch with his feminine side and watches oprah,…you must be capetonian.
Blade: Im not gay if thats what you mean {smiling}

We got interupted by the airhostess. And didnt have much convo untill we landed.
She had no ring on her finger  so I figured chances are shes single , I avoided asking the typical “where are you going, what business do you have in PE” questions untill we got of the plane at least.
My rationale was these are typical questions asked by typical guys trying to keep conversations going.Â

I proceeded to watch my fav episode of LOST on my laptop, Its a tradition of mine.
watching an episode of a show based on a plane crash during a flight. The irony if the plane did crash.

so anyway, when were picking up our lugage i noticed that she kept close proximity to me. At this point i was more focused on my weekend ahead and my days activities more than her. She then reinitiated conversation with me.

Turns out that both our moms had birthdays on the weekend and that we were here for the same length of time. She guessed wed probably be leaving back to cpt on the same plane.

She was right. After my weekend we had were booked on the exact flight back to cpt.
our flight was delayed so we had some time to chat outside of the noise.
I still hadnt number gotten her number after boarding.

It was when we landed at Cape Town when i finally did get her number.
After I got my lauage from the laguage conveyor belt  was when she asked the leading question:

Sharon: so your off…?
Blade: Yep back to the grind. I tell you what, gimme your number, you seem interesting lets do coffee sometime.
Sharon: yeah, great
Blade: unless you prefer smoothies….or tea…I dont knwo what you girls are into these days..
Sharon: noo, mojitos…what are you talking about
Blade: Ok , whatever…..on you of course..
Sharon: {laughs}…well just split that..{as she wrote down her number}

Lesson:
Look out for signals women give out for you to act. Dont expect her to make the first move, thats your job really.Â

Time and time again women tell me that men are just too stupid to pick up on the signals they give out. This includes the “get away from me” signals.

If you are overly cautious, rather err to the side of its on.

Be Sociable, Share!

• 

Related Posts

• Stories And Lessons From The Women in My Life (11)
• How To Get The Girl (0)
• Things to know before you approach her at a club (2)
• My Purgatory (1)
• A Woman’s Guide To Approaching Men (74)