Decided to go out after work today. Just got back.
The funny thing about some cape town clubs is that, they only prioritize certain clientel. I.E if you are a scantily clad young woman, you’ll probably get in without the hassle of standing in a cue.
A friend a myself had to stand in a cue while 13 (yes I counted ) chicks walked right past us to get in. Now I wasn’t kitted up for a night out, I remind you we randomly decided to get out.
Decided to go out after work today. Just got back.
The funny thing about some cape town clubs is that, they only prioritize certain clientel. I.E if you are a scantily clad young woman, you’ll probably get in without the hassle of standing in a cue.
A friend a myself had to stand in a cue while 13 (yes I counted ) chicks walked right past us to get in. Now I wasn’t kitted up for a night out, I remind you we randomly decided to get out.
After getting in an old familiar feeling started rearing its head in. I started feeling self conscious and insecure. I wasn’t dressed up and the people were quite dressed up at the club.
Lots of guys feel this insecure sometimes after entering a club, party, an event or any place where attractive women are gathered.
I remembered this and realized that this is the negative thought loop I was facing.
My coping mechanism was realizing that, I was there to have fun and have a good time with my friend. The music was good and the girls hot! I remembered my top rule:
Leave your troubles, worries and insecurities at the door.
I put a smile on my face and forced myself to dance, everyone else was.
An amazing thing happened, I actually started to easy up. I noticed that no one cared who I was and what I was thinking.
I also started to notice everyone else that was having fun WITH me. I noticed the girls that enjoyed how I was dancing, I noticed how one of the guys was emulating a dance move I was doing. I noticed the same reaction the older girl behind me got when an old school tune started playing. I noticed how much more fun I was having.
All this because I decided to take control.
This is easier said than done I wont lie. But make it a conscious effort, you might be pleasantly suspired.
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Sorry I didn’t manage to join you gents, sounds like it was a wicked night! I went for dinner at the Hussar Grill, definitely a hot spot!
Im feelin the results of that party right now.
not doin that again in a while
Hehe, girls get that initial feeling too – then we have a shot, and stop giving a damn and just let loose. I am long overdue a good night out, every weekend lately something has kept me from causing mayhem… ugh.
long overdue? weren’t out and about the other weekend?
your more than welcome to join us boyz if your keen to flex the social muscle tonight. there were murmors of an old school student party somewhere
I’m going out for pizza and beer tonight, and until payday I am a broke mofo, but let’s make a plan after that.
haha payday, yeah.
Ill holler.