She asked me this question out of nowhere. Now I’ve been asked this question several times before. Usually when she askes you if you are a player she already knows that you are one. She just wants to know if youll admit it or lie about it.
Player means different things to women than to men. Usually women view a player as douche bag and men view a player as a hero.
so how the hell do you answer that question from a woman without being a douche bag. You answer honestly.
Here is how and why.
Because there is this negative slant to the lable player when it comes to some girls I always try to clarify what it is to her.
Brief Backstory:
We had been friends for a while but this was one the first times she had ever seem me with a whole group of my new friends. The majority of my friends in cpt are female, especially my party friends. We had a brief thing ( I tried to kiss her..she said friends only…yeah my game wasnt solid in those days lol ).
The conversation:
<Girl> Are you a player?
<Blade> oh why do you ask?
<Girl> don’t play stupid with me, where do all these hoes come from.
<Blade> gees, don’t be nasty.
<Girl> answer the question..
<Blade> Fine…If by player you mean one that understands how “the game” works and how to Play it…Yes…if byPlayer you mean manipulative and decietful douche-bag…then NO.
<Girl> taylored answer…u rehersed that?
<Blade> ….Oh certainly…I get asked that alot *exagerated smile*.
Why?
If you arent able to answer a question like that honestly then you probably are a douche-bag. It also subtly lets her know that you are quite aware of the difference.
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Hahahahahahahaha. Sorry, I couldn’t hold back the giggles.