I’m a big fan of stand-up comedy. There are a few good lessons you could learn from stand-up comics about interacting, not only with women, but people general.
A few characteristics you can adopt from them in order to improve your skills with women.
I have dabbled with stand-up comedy on an amateur level and plan to continue when I get to Cape Town.
Approaching a group of random strangers in a club can be quite stressful. You are putting yourself out there, setting yourself up for rejection. It is always so much easier when she is the one that approaches you but ho often does this happen?
It is your job as a man to approach. If you do not approach then you do not stand a chance at all.
Fortunately this stress can be managed. We manage this by first understanding the situation and having a plan, a strategy. There are a few things that are quite important to know and understand before you go for the approach.
In a previous article I wrote about why women of exceptional beauty have a bitch shield.
Read more about it here
Here we are going to discuss how to identify and blast through the bitch shield.
A bitch shield has a few purposes explored below.
Some men find that women of particular beauty(Hot Chicks) come off as bitches. They find these women cold and inapproachable. Some go even as far as calling them sluts, because if they wanted, they could get any man they wanted.
Other women are intimidated by them. In my observations I have noticed that most hot chicks either hang out with girls of the same status/hotness or just guys. Its is very rare that a girl with model looks has average looking friends.
It is an internal conflict for men because, most men WANT a woman of such beauty in their lives. But yet each and every time he approaches one of them he gets blown off pretty quickly without even being given a chance.
To understand why this happens you need to understand a few things about the reality of a beautiful woman.
In my journey to becoming a PickUp Artist there were some things that slowed down and hindered my progress as I went along. Below is a list of 8 of them.
There are loads of pitfalls I could write about, but below are the 8 most important ones I feel.
Imagine my surprise when I woke up this morning and found that Niel Strauss had posted a link on facebook with a tiny description of his NEW BOOK.
The book is called “Rules of the Game: by Neil Strauss”. So far i have not managed to find out any details about it. It only came out Yesterday! (Tuesday 18 Dec 2007 ).
I think I might have jumped ahead of myself here. I know I might have left someof you by the wayside by not explaining what a PUA and the community behind it is all about.
PUA stands for PickUp Artist or PickUp Artistry.
What is a pick up artist.?
A pickup artist (PUA) is a term used to describe a man who is skilled in meeting, attracting, and seducing women.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pickup artist
This is the very first of hopefully many podcasts.
This podcasts titled Limiting Beliefs Part I covers one of the most misunderstood pieces of advice most often given to men and women when it comes to dating, Just Be Yourself.
This podcast explores the REAL meaning behind that advice and how it is slightly distorted.
Its the very first podcast so I’m still trying to get comfortable speaking into a mic in my room alone, and familiarizing myself with the mic.
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Found this article in one of my favorite PUA forums.
Its a well written in depth article on the various methods and players in the PUA game.
For a beginner PUA is pretty daunting because of the incredible amount of material and methodologies. This article breaks it down quite nicely.
http://www.kissntale.com/2007/03/17/the-seduction-community-a-confusing-mess/
I came across This months(December 2007) GQ magazine while visiting a friend today. To my surprise I saw “Pickup Artistry: Can Pick up Lines Work” on the front cover.
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