There seems to be a double standard from guys when it comes to women they find attractive and those they don’t find attractive.
This is understandable; you as a man will obviously find an attractive woman…..attractive hence treating her differently.
But sometimes this goes way too far!
For instance, men will often tolerate behavior from a woman they are attracted to that they would otherwise find unacceptable if exhibited by a woman they were not attracted to.
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So I’ve been in Cape Town a little over a month and have seen most of the clubs and venues that there are to see.
I think I have settled on one that I shall call my Headquarters or my Starting Point and ending off points for the night or just a general place to hang out that id be uber comfortable in.
This is just the first one that I have identified. There might be more, the maximum will probably be three of different styles for different vibes.
So why is it advantageous to have a headquarters and what are the hall marks of a good one?
Comfort is a key advantage. When you know the place and the staff you feel more at home. This also boosts your confidence.
DHV: When you are a familiar face at a venue it is much easier to demonstrate higher value. Especially when you the sort of guy that is friendly and not easy to forget, which you must be. Why is it higher value. Well for someone who doesn’t know that venue as well as you, by default in you mind they are in your house so therefore you have a slightly higher value than them. You have home field advantage.
So what are the hallmarks of a good venue?
More exiting news from this weekend.
Mystery, Matador, Lovedrop and the boys in the Venutianarts.com camp are announcing a World Tour set to begin in Los Angeles at the end of march.
this tour is going to be base almost entirely on they new method called Revelation. Now not much has been said about Revelation but from what I understand its a bootcamp series designed to improve you inner game.
Recently came across a killer show about AFCs trying to get the girl.
It is unfortunate that just being a super-smart genius will not get you the girl. Of course any decent girl probably wouldn’t mind dating a genious, but without all the other components it probably wouldn’t work out well. The same is true in the reverse.
This is a topic that is rarely covered by the PUA community. I have my own feelings on this issue.
I recently had a candid conversation about PickUp in general with a good friend of mine.
She recently found out about my involvement in the PUA community and so we spoke about it. After reading through some of my blog articles and a few others she finally told me how she felt about PUA.
She wasn’t entirely negative about PickUp Artistry though. She recognized the benefits of confidence it brings to a man, the benefits of having a plan. She also acknowledged that she hadn’t seen the picture in its entirety, but from what she had seen / read, she didn’t like.
There is some truth in what she says!
I don’t know how I missed this, but damn I’m glad I found it.
Niel Strauss has done it once again. To accompany his new book. Rules of the game. Niel started a myspace blog.
I found this great video of Mystery and the venutianarts.com crew break down what being a PickUp Artist is all about.
check it out:
http://www.venusianarts.com/pt/blog/default.aspx?id=34&t=CNN-undercover-at-our-New-Years-Eve-boo
I caught this on the VA blog yesterday.
Its a video clip on CNNs undercover piece on PickUp Artists.
Interesting.
What am I going to wear tonight? is the question that haunts most women before a night out.
Women spend hours in the bathroom kitting up, color coordinating everything, mixing and matching outfits.
Hair , makeup, smell all focused on.
And we all appreciate the effort they put in cause most of the time they come out looking HOT. I personally appreciate a woman that takes good care of her appearance. It shows a sense of self worth. It doesn’t have to be high fashion neither.
Now as a PUA , you understand the importance of the first impression, you understand the importance of how you present yourself. Leaving your dress sense up to chance is just not wise! Especially when your out.
It looks like Sinn is back on board with mystery method. I checked my Google reader and found below.
It seems that even Social Dynamics Gurus fight it out sometimes too.
So things got a little heated yesterday and I posted a bit too hastily…
I’m back on board.
Everyone has days where they don’t get along with their boss and want to quit…
Yesterday was just mine.
Back to our usually scheduled blogging.
S
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