Some men find that women of particular beauty(Hot Chicks) come off as bitches. They find these women cold and inapproachable. Some go even as far as calling them sluts, because if they wanted, they could get any man they wanted.
Other women are intimidated by them. In my observations I have noticed that most hot chicks either hang out with girls of the same status/hotness or just guys. Its is very rare that a girl with model looks has average looking friends.
It is an internal conflict for men because, most men WANT a woman of such beauty in their lives. But yet each and every time he approaches one of them he gets blown off pretty quickly without even being given a chance.
To understand why this happens you need to understand a few things about the reality of a beautiful woman.
To illustrate my point, lets explore the world of an imaginary average hot chick. Lets call her Maxine.
During Maxine’s early teen years, she starts to notice that shes getting a whole lot of attention from the boys. She realizes that she can get almost anything she wants simply by just asking for it. People are generally extra nice to her, more so than some of her friends.
As the years go by guys start hitting on her relentlessly. She gets a look or a comment at least 20 times a day, more depending on where she is. Sometimes guys grab on her just simply to get her attention.
At first she finds it exiting and great for her ego, but as time goes by it becomes more of the same. When she makes the mistake of acknowledging one of these comments or looks, she gets stuck in a conversation she honestly doesn’t wanna be in. More of the same, “Do you have a boyfriend? “, ” Can I buy you a drink? ” , ” I like your dress? “. It becomes rare for her to have an interaction with guys that is different.
20 times a day 7 days a week, even more when she goes out, over several years.
Eventually Maxine realizes that she has to come up with a method to deal with all the lovable losers. She has to come up with a Time Management Skill dedicated to dealing barage of bore.
We call this a Bitch Shield.
A bitch shield is a method employed by women to quickly and effectively deal with lovable losers.
It also serves as a filter. If you are able to get past her bitch shield, her tests, it shows her a lot about your character and personality. It instantly sets you apart from the hundreds of other guys that have tried and failed.
We shall explore the Bitch Shield and how to identify and how to get past it in detail in a later article.
Remember: It is easier to hate or dislike something you cant or don’t feel like you can have. It makes it easier for you to come up with excuses for you not being able to attain that.
Shes not really a bitch, shes a bitch just to you.
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Good article bro, a lot of truth in that!
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