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There seems to be a double standard from guys when it comes to women they find attractive and those they don’t find attractive.

This is understandable; you as a man will obviously find an attractive woman…..attractive hence treating her differently.
But sometimes this goes way too far!
For instance, men will often tolerate behavior from a woman they are attracted to that they would otherwise find unacceptable if exhibited by a woman they were not attracted to.

If your the sort of guy that has difficulty saying no to a hottie even when you know that you a being treated like shit or unfairly. We need to grow you a pair o balls.
We have all been victim to this at some point in our lives. It’s got to stop though.
Define your boundaries and don’t accept behavior that you would otherwise not tolerate.

Stand up for yourself!
It doesn’t do much for attraction if in the first few hours of meeting you she can already wrap you around her little finger.
Women will often test you. They well see how far they can push you. They need to do this to test whether you are a real man. They do this to test whether you have a strong sense of self. They test for how easily you are influenced by external forces.
These tests are generally referred to as shit-tests.
Think about it, if you cannot stand up for yourself HOW THE HELL ARE YOU GOING TO BE ABLE TO STAND UP FOR HER?

If you can’t handle her shit-tests, how can she rely on you when REAL shit hits the fan.
Some women do this consciously others don’t know that they are.
It is tough to give examples of shit-tests as they come in various shapes and sizes.
A common example of a shit-test is to topic of sex. If she brings up the topic of sex during the early stages of meeting her it’s normally to test how you react to it. If you turn into a horny dog she then knows she can use her sexuality to get what she wants from you. Just as well, if that’s all you want from her, why the hell shouldn’t she milk it for what its worth.

This is not always the case though; she might just be horny hahaha.
Another example of a shit test is a “are you chicken” challenge. This is just a case where your confidence is put to the test.
Now don’t get me wrong, as some of my readers often do. I’m not saying that women go around plotting evil tests. These tests are necessary and are an excellent opportunity to demonstrate your substance. They are a good thing, she probably won’t bother testing someone she isn’t remotely interested in, and it would be a waste of time.
Men test women for similar things too.
So how do you deal with these “shit-tests”?
Remain unaffected. It’s ok to be taken of guard that’s normal. But don’t let your very foundations be rocked by things like that. Sometimes is better to ignore these shit-tests, those that don’t warrant your time of day.
Define your boundaries, have some standards. And if your boundaries are crossed address it.

If she is being unreasonable to you, you don’t have to take it. Same goes for you girls, don’t violate your principles just because he’s hot.

You don’t have to take shit from anyone especially this early in the game. If she is being a bitch now imagine what she’s going to be like further down the line.

I’m not saying be an asshole about it. I’m not saying don’t be a gentleman.

I’m saying be reasonable to yourself and others.
Remember: It is YOU that shows people how to treat YOU.

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