Of Gods most wonderful creation on earth there are a few that you should probably avoid dating. In my experience and in no particular order here are 3 kinds of women I naturally try to avoid.
The primary reason is that they are a negative influence in my life. It is always advisable to surround yourself with people that help you grow as a person. This short list isn’t about telling women how to be. It is, instead, about telling men to date smarter. Ask any woman, they also have these kinds of lists so this is nothing new.
Self-Sufficiency ( The Leech )
One of my biggest turn offs is a woman with a clear lack of drive towards independence. Gawd, get a job woman! nothing worse that a woman that views you as a walking sack of cash. Sure Id love to pamper you but, you got to want to do that for yourself first! I have no desire to be a Sugar daddy (a man who finances a woman’s irresponsible habits). Its just not the kind of collaboration I have in mind.
The Humorless Wench
Well, there are senses of humour and senses of humour. Totally humourless women are bad news, unless you’re the type who likes to be ordered around. For me, the real message of this one is to avoid women who can’t take what life throws at them with a shrug and a laugh. If you go on a trip and the airline loses your luggage, what does she do? Does she laugh and adapt to the situation, rail against the stupidity of airlines and demand that “someone” fix the problem, or does she turn in the Princess in Distress and wait for someone to rescue her? You want the first one. If you tell her that you don’t like her music, does she accept the comment with a laugh, or rip into you for being an uncultured boor? In other words, as I said, can she take life’s disappointments in stride and laugh about them, or is she brittle and demanding?
Poor Self-Image
I think I’ve writen about this in a previous post
Women who have poor self-images and are comfortable in those poor self-images don’t like to be contradicted. They don’t like to hear that they’re beautiful, or exciting, or sexy. At some level they enjoy self-pity and the attention that it brings. By constantly trying to reassure her of her worthiness and beauty you will not be curing her poor self-image, but will instead simply: a) cause her to stop believing what you say, and b) feed her need for more and more attention of the form, “No, Honey, you’re not fat! You’re beautiful!”
Now, everyone has bad days, including self-pitying days. I would worry if I dated a woman who, even during her worst “time of the month” didn’t feel a little fat and ugly. The question is whether it is a constant theme, and whether she normally accepts compliments. If the answer is no, that she normally says, “No, I’m not,” when you tell her she’s beautiful, then you’re most likely looking at a lifetime of playing “the rescuer.” Get off the rescue team and go find someone with a better attitude.
Its not called BF-Image its called SELF-image for nothing.
Thats my take, whats yours?
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Dam son! I’ve had a few encounters with some low self-esteem (LSE) chicks and lemme tell you… it’s not cool dating these chicks!! There’s a word for these women… it’s called “Succubus”, the female version of an Incubus (google it). LOL
So anyway… I was “seeing” this one chick – a friend and thought I could help her. Sadly, I’ve learned that there’s is no hope for these chicks. So I now avoid them like the plague.
It’s sad because it’s these chicks that give women a bad reputation. And it’s fed into the media and made out to be the norm for women. I’ll give you a for instance… when a guy does something “wrong” in the eyes of the woman and she doesn’t assert herself to say that she doesn’t like what he did, she starts sulking and the guy is supposed to magically sniff out that he did something wrong. Not only that, but he must also know exactly what he did. Now, tell me that ain’t immatuuur.
These women have a pain body that never gets satisfied. It constantly needs re-energising which is why you hear the term drama queen. These chicks, instead of keeping things fun by flirting and role-playing, the only way they know to keep the relationship interesting is by looking for fights.
For example, they invest much of themselves into the relationship even though they see that the guy is not investing anything. And instead of not investing anymore, they continue to invest causing themselves to become more and more angry with themselves for not speaking up until the shit hits the fan.
In the end, you’ll find that these women drain you of ALL your energy! They are takers not givers. They will never be fulfilled because they can’t fulfill themselves so they look to the man to fulfill them. But it’s never enough. It’s like filling a bottomless pit.
Keeerist, thats quite a lineup. I was once blessed with the learning experience of dating a woman with all 3 traits rolled into 1. Scary stuff, I shit you not…