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Things to know before you approach her at a club

Posted by Blade On December - 22 - 2007

A Five Set

Approaching a group of random strangers in a club can be quite stressful. You are putting yourself out there, setting yourself up for rejection. It is always so much easier when she is the one that approaches you but ho often does this happen?
It is your job as a man to approach.
If you do not approach then you do not stand a chance at all.

Fortunately this stress can be managed. We manage this by first understanding the situation and having a plan, a strategy. There are a few things that are quite important to know and understand before you go for the approach.

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Getting Past her Bitch Shield

Posted by Blade On December - 21 - 2007

mean_girls_xl_01-film-b.jpgIn a previous article I wrote about why women of exceptional beauty have a bitch shield.
Read more about it here

Here we are going to discuss how to identify and blast through the bitch shield.

A bitch shield has a few purposes explored below.

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Why is she a bitch? understanding the world of hot chicks.

Posted by Blade On December - 21 - 2007

Hot Club GirlsSome men find that women of particular beauty(Hot Chicks) come off as bitches. They find these women cold and inapproachable. Some go even as far as calling them sluts, because if they wanted, they could get any man they wanted.

Other women are intimidated by them. In my observations I have noticed that most hot chicks either hang out with girls of the same status/hotness or just guys. Its is very rare that a girl with model looks has average looking friends.

It is an internal conflict for men because, most men WANT a woman of such beauty in their lives. But yet each and every time he approaches one of them he gets blown off pretty quickly without even being given a chance.

To understand why this happens you need to understand a few things about the reality of a beautiful woman.

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8 things to avoid when becoming a PickUp Artist ( PUA )

Posted by Blade On December - 19 - 2007

In  my journey to becoming a PickUp Artist there were some things that slowed down and hindered my progress as I went along. Below is a list of 8 of them.

There are loads of pitfalls I could write about, but below are the 8 most important ones I feel.

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Podcast: Limiting Beliefs Part I

Posted by Blade On December - 18 - 2007

This is the very first of hopefully many podcasts.

This podcasts titled Limiting Beliefs Part I covers one of the most misunderstood pieces of advice most often given to men and women when it comes to dating, Just Be Yourself.

This podcast explores the REAL meaning behind that advice and how it is slightly distorted.

Its the very first podcast so I’m still trying to get comfortable speaking into a mic in my room alone, and familiarizing myself with the mic.

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Being a man that naturally attracts women

Posted by Blade On December - 11 - 2007

Ever felt like there was a wall of bulletproof glass between you and women. Are you the guy that always ends up in the FRIEND ZONE. read on…the following are the basic building blocks for attraction.

CONFIDENCE:
a key component in attraction. confidence is a social skill that can be learned. be comfortable in your own skin. most women will tell you that a man with a presence is hot.

now simply saying be confident is not enough. Success breeds confidence, so work on building your success.

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What is a Real Man ?

Posted by Blade On December - 11 - 2007

What do women mean when they say I want a “real man”?

A real man is a universal desire among women. Women all over the world all across all ages and incomes are looking for the same thing and they describe it in basically the same way.

What exactly is a REAL MAN? and why do they use these words to describe him in this way?
What do they not want?

Well to begin with i believe they do not want a wussy. women, especially attractive desirable women that have choices, are used to men chasing after them, kissing up to them and demonstrating that they believe the woman is a rare and valuable prize.
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