Has this ever happened to you? You walk into your favourite bar and you notice a group of giggling girls sat at a table. You notice one in particular. You want to talk to her but you have no idea how to get her attention through all her friends. Hot girls always seem to roll in groups sometimes in groups of just girls other times with some guys. I’m often asked what are the basic rules of approaching a girl that is in one of these intimidating groups.
So last Friday I ended up at a strip club. My friend was insistent that he wanted to go and of course being a loyal wingman I couldnt abandon him. I have a few friends who have dated strippers, some still currently do. They are beautifully smart women that somehow have chosen to strip for a living. Strip clubs are not my forte. Getting a lap dance doesn’t have to involve cash.
I asked my friends who they managed to date these girls and they all seemed to say the following.
WTF does that shit mean?
It basically means a woman will help you along, aid and abbed you in her own seduction.
If she is genuinely attracted to you and wants you she will often signal it.
I often hear girls complaining that guys don’t pick up hints she drops. Especially socially savvy women.
Alright folks
Its been way too long since my last post. So whats been happening?
Been out sarging a couple times and I’ve found that I really dig talking to foreign chicks.
I just find them interesting.
They also seem to be more open to meeting new interesting people.
And of the ones I have met respond quite well to Cocky Funny routines.
I’m all about risque openers.
They are fun and unpredictable. here is one perfect for national cleavage day.
Try this opener on the “not so well endowed” ladies.
” …national cleavage day….so I guess your not participating……feeling a little left out? “
If you dont get it…stick to the standard stuff.
Remember , your not doing it to be mean…just a little cocky and fun.
I got this from one of my good friends and wingmen ( gifted Charmer )
Prime material and he came up with it on the spot.
” Can I get your opinion on 2 things that has been boggling me since i woke up to all this chest-flesh this morning. Firstly – how is this day gonna affect the confidence of of flat chested girls?mean…clearly you dont have a problem…but there are girls out there who are pretty (alot prettier..depending on your ball size) who are actually gonna make an effort to cover up today. Secondly…how would you feel about a day wherein guys have to wear tight pants in order to display their packages? (Think of funny name for day…still to early for me) Does this seem appropriate to you? Sorry…I’m trying to talk to you here…look me in the eyes please. (To self: Eish….dirty girl) “
There seems to be a double standard from guys when it comes to women they find attractive and those they don’t find attractive.
This is understandable; you as a man will obviously find an attractive woman…..attractive hence treating her differently.
But sometimes this goes way too far!
For instance, men will often tolerate behavior from a woman they are attracted to that they would otherwise find unacceptable if exhibited by a woman they were not attracted to.
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Here is another one of my openers, a piece I use all the time. As always its interesting unexpected and engaging.
This opener came up quite randomly in conversations with my wings one night. I think we were talking about stalkers and obsessive guys. We talked about it and I ended up asking a few people around us who all had different opinions on the subject, which is perfect for an opener.
…assuming you will infuse the usual opening parameters somewhere (false time constraints etc we shall get into this later.)
Now there are many variations of this. Here is one of them.
I’m not 100% sure where or how this piece first came to be wind of this piece, but I often use it as a conversation piece more than an opener (an opener is a conversation starter.)
This piece has lead to some interesting insights. I start off with it early into my interactions. Builds rapport pretty quickly
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