Solid Game

Real World Attraction and Charisma

What Girls Think of Your Dance-floor Moves

Posted by Blade On August - 17 - 2010

Hey, guy. I’ve seen you and several of your booitjies make what you call “moves” on girls on the dance floor over my years of clubbing. You haven’t asked for anyone’s opinion about your approach methods but I felt that someone needed to say something about this train wreck … for the sake of the ladies. But then I thought… wouldn’t it be much better to let the ladies speak for themselves? So I figured it would be best to ask some of my girlfriends to tell you what they thought about your so called “killer moves”.

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Secrets to Approaching a Girl in a Group

Posted by Blade On July - 15 - 2010

Has this ever happened to you? You walk into your favourite bar and you notice a group of giggling girls sat at a table. You notice one in particular. You want to talk to her but you have no idea how to get her attention through all her friends. Hot girls always seem to roll in groups sometimes in groups of just girls other times with some guys. I’m often asked what are the basic rules of approaching a girl that is in one of these intimidating groups.

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The Blade Is Back

Posted by Blade On July - 1 - 2010

Forgive me father for I have sinned. It has been several months since my last blog post. What can I say man, it’s been a heavy past couple of months. There’s been lots going in general and in my life. I know some of you were wondering what happened to me. Some of you were asking me if I had gotten a girlfriend and run off and abandoned the SolidGame. Well I’m here to say no such thing has happened… yet hahaha.
The thing is about my blog is that I prefer not to talk about every single thing that happens on a daily or weekly basis. You can find that on other blogs. I’d much prefer to share with you things that might either entertain you, school you or both.

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New Reality TV Show About Men in Cape Town

Posted by Blade On August - 18 - 2009

Today I discovered something interesting on twitter. There is a new TV show about to hit South African televisions @ 21h30 on Friday, November 3. The show is called Man. The show is about the love lives of 4 Cape Townian guys Henri Slier, Kaizer Tsosane, Trevor Gow and Maurice Levin.

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How To Choose The Right Suit

Posted by Blade On August - 4 - 2009

I love suits. I don’t have very many but my collection is growing. I James Bond is currently my favourite suit guy second only to Barney Stinson who believes suiting up is a way of life. Following International Suit Up Day coming up on the 13th of August, I decided to do some research on the net about choosing a suit. Choosing a suit isn’t as straight forward as you might think. There are several things to take into consideration, body size/shape, fabric, suit style etc. Hope fully this post will give you a clearer idea on what to do when trying to get a suit.
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The Future Of Dating

Posted by Blade On June - 10 - 2009

I found another gem comic through an email chain. I just had to share.
I’m on twitter quite alot so I thought this was quite funny.

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How To Get The Girl

Posted by Blade On June - 4 - 2009

I found this hilarious graph from one of my friends in my facebook newsfeed this morning. thought I should share it.
I went on to the creators website. These guys are flippin funny.
Check them out at http://www.thedoghousediaries.com/ and on twitter @willrayraf

They certainly have an interesting perspective on dating and relationships. Nice one guys.

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Dating Younger Women

Posted by Blade On March - 18 - 2009

 

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Hi Carlos.

I want to make a quick comment about this newsletter. (on dating younger women…)  

You may remember my story from earlier communication between us, but here’s a short debrief:

I am 34, and last year I met this lovely 20 year-old, and messed everything up. Of course I did, back then I knew nothing about how to handle women.

 

I started reading everything I found about this topic, some good, some not that good, but it helped me focus. And now, 7-8 months later, she’s mine.

New Book by Neil Strauss: Emergency

Posted by Blade On March - 16 - 2009

 

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From the book’s official description:

“After the last few years of violence and terror, of ethnic and religious hatred, of tsunamis and hurricanes–and now of world financial meltdown–Strauss, like most of his generation, came to the sobering realization that, even in America, anything can happen. But rather than watch helplessly, he decided to do something about it. And so he spent three years traveling through a country that’s lost its sense of safety, equipping himself with the tools necessary to save himself and his loved ones from an uncertain future.”

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How to get her Number using Facebook

Posted by Blade On March - 13 - 2009

 

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There are some similarities between getting a girls number face to face as opposed to getting her number through Facebook.
Some might say it’s easier others say not so much.

I prefer to get her number face to face. That way I can tell immediately whether I want to contact her at all or not. I can tell how “on” (how much attraction is between us) it is.
That being said, I do occasionally use the Facebook route. It’s convenient; I’m a busy guy with things to do. And if I’m interested in a particular lass, it’s easier for me to interact with her via the convenience of FB.

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