VENT ALERT! Oh, you don’t want to “play that game”? Think the perfect guy should instantly see all you have to offer, and you shouldn’t have to work for it? . I’ve met a few guys who said they don’t want to play that game either. Women should flock to them because they are nice, and sweet. No points for guessing how that’s working out. It’s not about “nice”, it’s about how the world is!
If what you are doing is yielding you the results that you want in your dating life..then more power to you. If not, perhaps you need to change the way you think.
LIFE DOES NOT OWE YOU SHIT!
Today I discovered something interesting on twitter. There is a new TV show about to hit South African televisions @ 21h30 on Friday, November 3. The show is called Man. The show is about the love lives of 4 Cape Townian guys Henri Slier, Kaizer Tsosane, Trevor Gow and Maurice Levin.
The story is this: a girl was out with friends having drinks on King St (in Toronto ). This guy approaches her and won’t leave her alone -saying how cute she is. She finally gives in and hands the guy her business card to get rid of him.
The attached is an MP3 file of not one, but TWO voicemails this guy left. This goes down in the history books – especially the second voice mail.
After hearing them you can clearly see why she didn’t call him back – instead she called in to the Z103.5 morning show & had them play this on the air.
I woke up early, ironed my shirt. Picked out my tie. Assembled the killer combo. Strolled to work with a swagger only a dude with a suit can swing. Walked into the office..paused gave the receptionist a nod and a wink.
<Receptionist> Nice suit…? *smiling*
<Blade> Why thank you mizz…
…..
<Colleague> didn’t think you ACTUALLY suit up
<Blade> …bro…if you think you can’t …the you are probably right.
<Colleague> …that doesn’t even make sense
<Blade> ….if you were suited up it would.
And so began a legendary day.
I woke up early, ironed my shirt. Picked out my tie. Assembled the killer combo. Strolled to work with a swagger only a dude with a suit can swing. Walked into the office..paused gave the receptionist a nod and a wink.
<Receptionist> Nice suit…? *smiling*
<Blade> Why thank you mizz…
<Colleague> didn’t think you ACTUALLY suit up
<Blade> …bro…if you think you can’t …the you are probably right.
Due to the sheer volume of cool places in Cape Town I decided to have a second list of Cape Town’s Best First Date Venues. TheScud has graciously volunteered to put together the second volume. Feel free to send us your recommendations.
During high school and a few years after, I was known to my friends as the professional single guy. I told them I didn’t have a girlfriend BY CHOICE, a total lie.
I wasn’t a social outcast; I used to get invited to parties etc.
I remember at several occasions when the song below, The Raconteurs – Steady as she goes , would play someone used to go…”where is Blade ? “ . as if to say the tune reminded them of me.
The first two lines of this tune are “ Find yourself a girl and settle down, Live a simple life in a quiet town.” It was a running joke for some time.
Boy how things have changed, or not. My friends still ask “where is Blade?” when this tune comes on.
The context is different now.
The picture above illustrates me what I mean.
The top half represents my high school days, the bottom represents present day.
My point?
Build it and they will come. – Field of dreams
Find yourself a girl, and settle down.
Live a simple life in a quiet town.
Steady as she goes… (steady as she goes)
Steady as she goes… (steady as she goes)
So steady as she goes.
Your friends have a shown a kink in the single life.
You’ve had too much to think, now you need a wife.
Steady as she goes… (steady as she goes)
So steady as she goes… (steady as she goes)
Well, here we go again,
You’ve found yourself a friend that knows you well.
But no matter what you do,
You’ll always feel as though you tripped and fell.
So steady as she goes.
When you have completed what you thought you had to do,
And your blood’s depleted to the point of stable glue,
Then you’ll get along, then you’ll get along.
Steady as she goes… (steady as she goes)
So steady as she goes… (steady as she goes)
Well, here we go again,
You’ve found yourself a friend that knows you well.
But no matter what you do,
You’ll always feel as though you tripped and fell.
So steady as she goes.
Steady as she goes.
Settle for a world, neither up or down.
Sell it to the crowd that is gathered round.
Settle for a girl, neither up or down.
Sell it to the crowd that is gathered round.
So steady as she goes… (steady as she goes)
Steady as she goes… (steady as she goes)
Steady as she goes… (steady as she goes)
So steady as she goes… (steady as she goes)
Steady as she goes, are you steady now?
Steady as she goes, are you steady now?
Steady as she goes, are you steady now?
Steady as she goes, are you steady now?
Steady as she goes.
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